what to say and not what to do.
hey earthlings. this is going to be an emo post.
friendships again you might ask. nope, its about my sister. true, she irritates me time to time, but she's my sister after all, and the same blood runs in us. i know some disputes happened between her and her friends, but i didnt know it was that bad. firstly, her friends deleted all the their blog posts with her and all. secondly, they just said they were disappointed with her, etc., said that she didnt trust them... blahblah. seriously.
my sister told me and my mum it was
her who picked up a fight over some lame stuff and then asked the whole gang to go against her. i mean seriously. so now they are going out all the time without my sister, happy and still bouncing. have they considered my sister's feelings? so now who is my sister going to hang out with?
they said themselves, '
3 years friendship, just down the drain...' well, they have 4 people there, and my sister is fighting this battle all alone.
i feel bad for my sister. sorry for her. angry for her. because this is just not fair. if they were on a balance machine my sister would be outweighted and would fly off to the sky.
stop to think, and maybe friendships wouldnt end so fast if one just LISTENED instead of hearing. i guess this sort of implies to some of my friends.
who's a bitch, who backstabbed who? who's the hypocrite, and why did she cry? arent these just questions we ask people every single day? if this question's subject is YOU, how would you feel? bitches are to be
condemned, backstabbers are to be
slapped. hypocrites are to be
ignored, and people to cry are to be
consoled. agree it or not this is somewhat the fact. minus the violence part. but you get my drift.
if one could understand another better, took the time to really stop and think instead of blabbering shit what not and getting people irritated and all, conflicts will be resolved swiftly and painlessly with a win-win situation. 'LOVE IS IN THE AIR!' but instense hatred will exist.
this might be surprising, but yes, to YOU,
GENEVIEVE LIM HUI QI. you spazz girl, thank you for being there for me ALL THE WHILE FOR EVERYTHING. i'm so glad everything is fine once more. <33 phone calls are SO essential! so you know what to do! haha. our friendship has grown stronger through this ordeal and i hope happy things exist now! though i cant understand your theory of friendship(just 1 our of many), i still ♥ you and you know it! haha you'd better read this. and after yu do I'M DELETING THIS EMBARASSING DEDIII!
so listen with your heart, and stop the hearing with your ears.
on to a rendezvous.
Sophie Kinsella(Shopaholic series)
Go crazy.